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So I met this random stranger a while back. I, sure we meet strangers all the time, but this was a stalker-ish guy, those guys who have ulterior interests. He looked about 40 years and my first thought was “ he is looking for a second wife!!” lol. Of course from first impressions there are a few reservations I had about him… and also the fact that my eyes are elsewhere at the moment (here). (speaking of which I should do a relationship post soon). What particularly ticked me off though was how a) someone meets you for the first two minutes and they are already talking of a relationship!! Whaat!! You don’t know me!! And b) someone who you don’t know, who has just declared their relationship interest wanting to hug you in the first five minutes of meeting!! Yuck!!

Anyway this encounter made me remember that…

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8 tips to maintain length for Natural hair

Length retention is perhaps one of the biggest questions asked in the Natural hair world. Although a lot of people seem to have and unhealthy obsession with length, it still remains a good way to monitor your hairs health and progress. I prepared this pictorial that I shared on my Instagram stories… And thought I should share it here… While these tips are certainly not exhaustive, they offer a quick background on some healthy hair practices that I have talked about before on this blog.

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october planner +Journal printable

I’m not sure if I should do a microphone check here or on YouTube because I have been Missing in action… and I am not sure I have fully come back. There’s a lot happening behind the scenes that is so exhausting. it looks like late nights, blood ,sweat and tears basically . then rinse and repeat the cycle. So my mind has not been blog present as much. However, because planning is a must have part of my process….I have to show up so that we can plan together as is custom.

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A marriage like mine

Just woke up. I have for the last week tried to wake up before 0600hours which has had me wake up between 0445hrs and 0600hrs which is impressive. I’m having a cup of tea while catching up on updating the vlog. Have you noticed site changes? Now you can support my work by donating while I also work on a few exciting projects that I can’t wait to bring to you. Funny enough I am still excited about this year… the discomfort has really pushed me. It’s difficult though make no mistake.

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Cuddles and shoulders…Difficult days

The story of how I met or rather started being close with my best friend is actually interesting. If you really want the full scoop check out our blog. ( haha we used to blog). I think about it and can’t help but notice how we unknowingly had the same kind of interests and circumstances. If I was superstitious I would definitely say that we were meant to be… But I am not…also our path just showed me that it wasn’t predestined but rather effort and intention. (That is definitely a story for another day) I digress. Continue reading “Cuddles and shoulders…Difficult days”